A repost from CaringBridge, January 11, 2020
Today marks 56 years that Mom and Dad have been married. What an accomplishment. What a testament. What a commitment. They met as children in upstate New York. Dad robbed the cradle, and they married young. At nineteen and twenty-two its unlikely that when they promised ‘til death do us part’ and ‘in sickness and in health,’ that they fully understood what they were signing up for. Yet, here they are – 56 years later – showing their family, friends and community what those vows really mean.
This post is in honor of their grit. Their digging down deep and staying when it wasn’t easy. Their decision to put Christ in the middle of their marriage and lean on Him when feelings came and went and forgiveness was hard and the road wasn’t smooth (because we all know it is never always smooth for any married couple.)
This post is in honor of the family they built. The love and confidence they poured into their daughters and continue to pour into their grandchildren. Their legacy grows and becomes richer as the years pass.
This post is in honor of Mom. Mom – who used to let Dad take the lead in most things, but since the stroke, has had to step into that role and become the rock for him to stand on. She has truly amazed us. Her entire world turned upside down ten months ago. Her plans for what her future would look like completely imploded. It’s been so hard for the family, but I can’t even imagine what it’s been like for Mom. Still, her steadfast love hasn’t wavered. She serves tirelessly and has learned to accept this new normal. Together, they’ve learned a new “language.” They communicate now with knowing looks, giggles and funny gestures. Their eyes tell their love story. Her fierce protection of him shows the depth of her feelings. Sure, she has tough days and sad moments, but my God, she’s solid. She’s compassionate. She’s committed. Over the last ten months she has truly lived her marriage vows as an exceptional example to all who are watching. We’re blessed to have a front row seat.
Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad. We’re so honored to see the unconditional love you two share with each other. We’re thankful to God to have you both here with us to celebrate this milestone.❤️
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